Community Guidelines
Building a safe, respectful space for everyone
1. Be Respectful & Kind
SoftLov is built on kindness. Every member deserves to feel safe and respected. Treat others the way you would want to be treated.
- Use polite, considerate language in all interactions
- Respect boundaries — if someone isn't interested, accept it gracefully
- Celebrate diversity — we welcome all backgrounds, identities, and orientations
- Never pressure anyone for photos, meetings, or personal information
2. Authentic Profiles Only
Your profile is your first impression. Keep it honest and genuine.
- Use real, recent photos of yourself — no filters that significantly alter your appearance
- Do not use photos of celebrities, other people, or AI-generated images
- Write an accurate bio that reflects who you truly are
- Do not create multiple accounts or fake profiles
- Impersonating another person is strictly prohibited
3. Safe Messaging
Our messaging feature is for building genuine connections — not harassment or solicitation.
- No unsolicited explicit content or sexual messages
- No spamming other members with repeated unwanted messages
- Never ask for or share financial information
- Do not send links to external sites, especially unknown or suspicious ones
- Report any messages that make you feel unsafe
4. Zero Tolerance Behaviors
The following behaviors will result in immediate permanent ban:
- Hate speech based on race, gender, sexuality, religion, disability, or nationality
- Any form of harassment, bullying, or threats
- Sharing or soliciting intimate images without consent
- Soliciting money, crypto, or gifts from members
- Engaging with or targeting minors in any way
- Promoting violence or illegal activities
5. Community Spaces
Our communities are themed spaces where members connect around shared interests. When participating:
- Keep posts relevant to the community's theme
- Do not post promotional content, advertisements, or spam
- Engage constructively — debate ideas, not people
- Support and encourage fellow community members
- Community moderators' decisions are final
6. Reporting & Enforcement
If you see something that violates these guidelines, please report it. Your report helps keep the community safe.
- Use the report button on any profile, message, or post
- Our safety team reviews all reports within 24 hours
- Repeated or severe violations result in permanent removal
- False reports submitted in bad faith may result in action against the reporter
For urgent safety concerns, contact us directly at safety@softlov.com.
7. Consequences
Violations of these guidelines may result in:
- Warning — for minor first-time violations
- Temporary suspension — for repeated or moderate violations
- Permanent ban — for severe or repeated violations
- Legal action — where required by law (e.g., criminal threats, CSAM)
Banned accounts forfeit any remaining subscription value. Appeals may be submitted to appeals@softlov.com.
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