Community Standards

Community Guidelines

Building a safe, respectful space for everyone

Everyone belongs here. SoftLov is an inclusive community where all members — regardless of age, background, sexuality, or identity — deserve to feel safe, respected, and celebrated. These guidelines exist to protect that experience for everyone.

1. Be Respectful & Kind

SoftLov is built on kindness. Every member deserves to feel safe and respected. Treat others the way you would want to be treated.

  • Use polite, considerate language in all interactions
  • Respect boundaries — if someone isn't interested, accept it gracefully
  • Celebrate diversity — we welcome all backgrounds, identities, and orientations
  • Never pressure anyone for photos, meetings, or personal information

2. Authentic Profiles Only

Your profile is your first impression. Keep it honest and genuine.

  • Use real, recent photos of yourself — no filters that significantly alter your appearance
  • Do not use photos of celebrities, other people, or AI-generated images
  • Write an accurate bio that reflects who you truly are
  • Do not create multiple accounts or fake profiles
  • Impersonating another person is strictly prohibited

3. Safe Messaging

Our messaging feature is for building genuine connections — not harassment or solicitation.

  • No unsolicited explicit content or sexual messages
  • No spamming other members with repeated unwanted messages
  • Never ask for or share financial information
  • Do not send links to external sites, especially unknown or suspicious ones
  • Report any messages that make you feel unsafe

4. Zero Tolerance Behaviors

The following behaviors will result in immediate permanent ban:

  • Hate speech based on race, gender, sexuality, religion, disability, or nationality
  • Any form of harassment, bullying, or threats
  • Sharing or soliciting intimate images without consent
  • Soliciting money, crypto, or gifts from members
  • Engaging with or targeting minors in any way
  • Promoting violence or illegal activities

5. Community Spaces

Our communities are themed spaces where members connect around shared interests. When participating:

  • Keep posts relevant to the community's theme
  • Do not post promotional content, advertisements, or spam
  • Engage constructively — debate ideas, not people
  • Support and encourage fellow community members
  • Community moderators' decisions are final

6. Reporting & Enforcement

If you see something that violates these guidelines, please report it. Your report helps keep the community safe.

  • Use the report button on any profile, message, or post
  • Our safety team reviews all reports within 24 hours
  • Repeated or severe violations result in permanent removal
  • False reports submitted in bad faith may result in action against the reporter

For urgent safety concerns, contact us directly at safety@softlov.com.

7. Consequences

Violations of these guidelines may result in:

  • Warning — for minor first-time violations
  • Temporary suspension — for repeated or moderate violations
  • Permanent ban — for severe or repeated violations
  • Legal action — where required by law (e.g., criminal threats, CSAM)

Banned accounts forfeit any remaining subscription value. Appeals may be submitted to appeals@softlov.com.

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